The Social Club Consultant

Draymond Washington

The social club consultant and community growth strategist.

Draymond Washington seated on a leather bench in front of a deep red paneled wall

For club founders, brands, organizers, and spaces.

Three Cities Social, a Chicago social club, grew from 25 founding members to 250+.

Contact me Who it is for

250+ members, 30-45 events a month.

The story

I left finance to build Three Cities Social.

What most adults are missing isn't ambition. It's connection.

On leaving Merrill Lynch

So I built Three Cities Social in River North, designed around one idea: make it easy to see the same people again. It worked. The club grew from 25 founding members to 250+. It runs 30-45 events a month.

Draymond Washington hosting members at Three Cities Social in Chicago

The timeline, honestly

  1. Opened in River North with 25 founding members.

  2. 250+ members, still effectively a one-person operation.

  3. 250+ members and 30-45 events a month. Going deeper, not just bigger: capped membership and sharper programming.

Knowing when to close is part of the job.

I opened a second location, and I closed it on purpose. When the numbers said walk, I walked away from a ~$1.4M lease renewal, and the club is stronger for it. Most consultants only sell the growth story. I'll help you know when to expand, and when to stop.

Who it is for

I help people build clubs that actually work.

Plenty of consultants will sell you community strategy. I signed the leases, set the prices, ran 500+ events, made the payroll, and closed the location that didn't pencil. You get the playbook and the scar tissue.

Green armchairs arranged in a circle under ring lights at Three Cities Social
  1. The aspiring founder

    You have the idea and maybe a waitlist. You need the sequence: proof before lease, cohort before opening, the napkin test before the broker tour.

  2. The organizer

    Your run club, dinner series, or league already draws a crowd. You want to turn showing up into membership, and revenue, without killing the soul.

  3. The space

    You operate a venue, studio, or coworking floor with dead hours. A membership layer can be your highest-margin product if it is built as a club, not a discount.

  4. The brand or company

    You want real community: members, rituals, retention. Not another activation that ends when the budget does.

Offers

Work with me.

The Operators Circle is the founding table. A Blueprint Call is where everyone starts.

The monthly table

One live group session a month: a teardown of one member's club, a working topic from the System, and open problem-solving. Recorded for the vault.

The channel

A private space for the questions between sessions: pricing calls, vendor checks, lease gut-checks. Someone in the room has faced it.

Template drops

Working documents from the Vault released to the Circle over time, with walkthroughs of how to adapt them.

The network effect

Cross-city referrals, guest-host swaps, and first access to Founder Days, workshops, and license conversations.

The entry point

The Blueprint Call

$350 for 90 minutes

For founders who need direction now.

  • Full teardown of your concept, space plan, and numbers
  • Pricing and funnel recommendations on the call
  • A written 30-day action plan within 48 hours
  • The expansion-gate and napkin-test worksheets

If you do not leave with a clear next 30 days, the call is free.

Book the call, Blueprint Call, $350

The Founder Day

$1,800 for one day in Chicago

See a working club from the inside.

  • A full day in Chicago. Tour it like a prospect, staff it like an owner
  • Sit in on real programming and member operations
  • Afternoon working session on your club's plan
  • 30-day follow-up call once you're home

Book the day, Founder Day, $1,800

Launch Sprint

From concept to founding cohort and first events. Eight weeks.

  • Weekly working sessions, direct access in between
  • Concept, pricing, and founding-member offer, built together
  • Your launch sequence, tour script, and onboarding choreography
  • The full Vault, adapted to your club
  • Goal: founding members committed before you open

Contact me about Launch Sprint

Operating Partner

A founder-operator in your corner, ongoing. Three-month minimum.

  • Monthly strategy session, plus a review of anything between sessions
  • Your numbers read monthly: recurring revenue, churn, event results
  • Programming calendar and sponsorship pipeline reviews
  • Vendor, lease, and hiring decisions, pressure-tested

Contact me about Operating Partner

Speaking

Put the story on your stage.

Keynotes, panels, and working sessions for conferences, companies, universities, and hospitality groups, told with the receipts, not the highlight reel.

  • The Loneliness Business. Why belonging is the next great local industry, and what it actually takes to sell it. For conferences and brand teams.
  • Charge to Show Up. The counterintuitive economics of community, and why free kills the thing it grows. For operators and marketers.
  • The founding story. The founding story, mistakes intact. For founders, students, and anyone building from zero.
  • Custom workshops. A working session built on your team's actual community problem, using the same system my clients run.

Book Draymond to speak

What I believe

The Ten Laws

Ten rules the club actually runs on, each one paid for before it was written down. Here is the first. The other nine belong to clients and the Circle.

Law I

Charge to show up.

Free things get treated like free things. Attach even a small, refundable commitment and attendance transforms.

Receipt: Our free kickball team of 25 forfeited about 80% of its games. Our deposit-backed volleyball league never forfeited once. Same members.

Laws II through X

Pricing, programming, culture, growth, and the one about money. Each with the receipt that taught it. Clients and the Circle only.

What clients get

The System: the five chapters that run Three Cities.

From before the lease to running it without you. Documented, tested, and adapted to each client's club. The titles are public. Nothing else is.

  1. I.

    The Container

    Client engagements only
  2. II.

    The Engine

    Client engagements only
  3. III.

    The Money

    Client engagements only
  4. IV.

    The Second House

    Client engagements only
  5. V.

    The Operating System

    Client engagements only
Bookshelves, orange armchairs, and a chessboard in the library at Three Cities Social
The library at Three Cities Social.

The library

The Vault: the documents that run a real club.

Not for sale separately. They travel with engagements, adapted to your club, your city, your numbers.

  • Founder Operating Playbook
  • Launch sequence
  • Intake and tour scripts
  • Onboarding choreography
  • Private rental kit
  • Event runbook template
  • League and commitment mechanics
  • Sponsorship kit
  • Retention machinery
  • Pricing framework
  • Expansion gate checklist
  • House rules and culture guide

The license, application only

Bring Three Cities to your city.

For a few operators, this goes past advice: a license to build a Three Cities club of your own. The brand, the full operating system, and me on the ground for launch.

  • The Three Cities name, brand system, and member experience standards
  • The full operating system: every playbook, contract, script, and SOP
  • Site selection through founding cohort, launched together, on the ground
  • Ongoing operator circle: shared programming, cross-city member benefits

Apply for a license

Licenses are granted to operators who complete a Launch Sprint or equivalent vetting. Serious inquiries only.

Daylit lounge at Three Cities Social, with a leather sofa, sheer curtains, and a globe light

"Three cities" was always the plan. Yours could be one of them.

A conversation in front of the Chicago map mural at Three Cities Social
A conversation at Three Cities Social.

Members

Don't take my word for it. Take the members'.

4.9 on Google, from 46 reviews. 45 of 46 are five stars. The one that is not keeps me honest.

Three Cities was a terrific spot to host our event. Incredibly professional, prompt, and clean.

Quinten R., event host, Google review

Always super clean, and the space is designed beautifully… a great perk if you're new to Chicago or want to join a social club to make new friends.

Member, Google review
Members dressed for a party and gathered around a table at Three Cities Social
Members of Three Cities Social standing together

Members of Three Cities Social.

Members talking together during an evening gathering at Three Cities Social
An evening at Three Cities Social.

Apply and contact

Tell me what you are building.

Not sure which fits? The Blueprint Call is where everyone starts. Or tell me what you're building and I'll tell you straight if I can help.

Portrait of Draymond Washington

Draymond Washington
Chicago
draymond@threecitiessocial.com

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